Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Perfect things never come to an end!

There's one sad truth in life I've found
While journeying east and west -
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.
~Ella Wheeler Wilcox

People are not wrong! It's the striking of chords amongst two souls that makes things hard. No matter how bad you may find someone, there would always be someone to love that one and no matter how good you are, a certain set, a certain amount of souls hate you.. for something may or may not been done by you! So true, “People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”. I've learned in my lifetime so far that you can't help who you fall for and no matter how hard you try and how much it hurts you every day that you just want to be with them or just talk to them you never stop trying to make them happy by the little things you say or do because that’s what makes your life worth going on for.
You meet people, believe in them..talk to them, know them..and term them as friends. With days passing by, friends become good and better. Feelings grow along with humans. You discover love; you realize the importance of relationship. You become better friends and try naming it. Not always lovers, may be best friends...may be siblings...
Those who are rich in their friendship seem to be those who believe in lifelong relationship, who stay with their companions through thick and thin ,who weather the dry spells.
People find it hard to understand but with passing time you stop explaining. You know it's beautiful and precious. You put in your faith and trust. You start believing in its existence and work upon making it never ending. At times, you may fall for a relation that is weak enough that time or distance may separate it. You lose! But don't lose your heart. This was never a complete relationship. If it was, you shall cross paths.
"If you want something, you get it. If you don't get it, you really didn't want it at all."
That’s why I say, perfect things never come to an end.

P.S. To Shatab,
Being friends with you was the second best thing in this world. Finding you was the first!

P. P.S. Thank you for letting me write the 100th post :-)


Arv said...

beautiful dedication...

congos Shatab :)

Express said...


people, this is the 100th post, and the 90th published post, so well.. equally special :)

1st guest post ever on my blog; so doubly special.

and sachi wrote it, so, most special post ever on this link. :) :)

Express said...

Now, that is something OUT OF MY HEAD!
exactly what I am going through right now, my god! our lives, our views.. I couldn't have done a job any closer to the excellence in ur flow and language.. so well, cheers to you!

and, cheers to us! coz v r the best!

AG said...

loved it

Jinxed Pixie said...

'people are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges'?
Joseph F.Newton. I know!

and lovely post! :D

CRD said...

Wow! Guest Writer decides to come over and write something that not for himself/herself...Lucky U Shatabdi..You do have a caring friend [:)]

Congratulations for the Milestone 100



i m also of same view..
b/c if we will make our mind even before knowing ppl.. how d relationship will grow..
my perception is we should give chance to everyone.. b/c whn u spend time together.. u knw eachother better. n tht helps u nurture ur relation..
i believe tht even if u have to live with the person u hate most.. after a point of time u will start loving him/her ..

deluded said...


such a lovely logical post.

no wonder its a guest post ;)

just kidding shatabdi.

happy 100th

Anurag said...

hey nice guest post that ...

Happy 100'th :)

CRD said...

Here's Wishing You A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

-From all of us at BLOGGERATTI [:)]


Rakesh said...

really well said...
“People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges...i totally aagree to this...

people who choose to find get what they want...

I'll try 2 be truthful said...

*sigh* reminded me of the 'ye dooriyan' song.

its true how some people whom we hold so close tend to hurt as the most but it might that we too have hurt them. :(

congrats on the 100th post.

workhard said...

Hi. that is very well written..

Im sure i ll be back to

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